Use PMTUD to set the MTU to the VPN interface

- Add `VPN_PMTUD` option enabled by default
- One can revert to use `VPN_PMTUD=off` to disable the new PMTUD mechanism

internal/netlink/link.go

@@ -62,6 +62,10 @@ func (n *NetLink) LinkSetDown(link Link) (err error) {
 	return netlink.LinkSetDown(linkToNetlinkLink(&link))
 }
 
+func (n *NetLink) LinkSetMTU(link Link, mtu int) error {
+	return netlink.LinkSetMTU(linkToNetlinkLink(&link), mtu)
+}
+
 type netlinkLinkImpl struct {
 	attrs    *netlink.LinkAttrs
 	linkType string